RORY: You'll know, okay? You just have to let it happen. And then, probably when you're not looking, you'll find someone who complements you.
PARIS: Meaning?
RORY: Someone who likes what you like, someone who reads the same books or listens to the same music or likes to trash the same movies. Someone compatible.
PARIS: Okay.
RORY: But not so compatible that they're boring.
PARIS: Someone who's compatible but not compatible.
RORY: Yeah, kind of. I mean, you respect each other's opinions and you can laugh at the same jokes, but I don't know, there's just something about not quite knowing what the other person's gonna do at all times that's just really... exciting.

- gilmore girls 3x01